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Lessons on leaving a legacy

Karen Shiebler
5 min readJun 27, 2023
Photo by Antoine J. on Unsplash

I’m getting old. I am at the point in life where I have begun to spend the time between 3 and 5 AM wondering about how I have impacted this beautiful world and the people who inhabit it.

Like too many women, I often wonder if I have been enough. Did I give enough? Did I nurture enough? Was a smart enough?

As life moves on and I find myself facing the frailty and unpredictability of the human body, I have begun to realize that one average life can, in fact, leave a meaningful legacy. Here is what I have come to believe.

Knowing that even one human being has been lifted up and inspired by their presence is a guarantee a person has met their obligation to the universe. For me, knowing that my own three children are now happy, loving, kind human beings shows me that I have achieved life’s goal. To see them loving and raising the next generation is further proof of the legacy that my husband and I will leave.

And not because I was lucky enough to have given birth to them and raised them! No. Because I loved them and respected them and held them up when they needed to be held up. Because I believed in them, modeled love for them, and always told them that they were my gift. Because I took the time and attention to pass on to them the many lessons that were passed to me by my…

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Karen Shiebler
Karen Shiebler

Written by Karen Shiebler

A Mother, a grandmother, a progressive voter. I write because it’s getting harder to march and because words are my weapon. I blog at momshieb.wordpress.com

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